Let’s take a look at the next scenario:
You are at a wedding reception by yourself, while sitting with a bunch of strangers at one of those typical round tables with a white tablecloth on, and a fancy wedding bouquet right in the center.
The newlyweds are nowhere to be found (probably because they are taking pictures with everyone), and after 20 minutes of plain boredom and just looking around, you know deep inside it’ll be a long night, but then…, you see her…standing right in front of you!
She’s beautiful, but unlike any other girl at the reception, there’s something about her that captivates you in a way you just can’t comprehend, a touch of mystery that somehow makes her stand out from everyone else. But no matter how hard you try, you just can’t figure it out.
Maybe it’s the way she looks, maybe it’s the way she walks, or the confidence she exudes when she talks to someone, but she seems to have it all…, and you just can’t deny it.
Every element of her outfit blends seamlessly. Her beautiful white skin shows discretely under her fancy yellow dress, while her beautiful red long hair falls delicately over her right shoulder; oh, and that sexy dragon tattoo on her back has got to be the icing on the cake!
You’re completely mesmerized by her, she has stolen your attention!, and out of a sudden, the 70 year old man sitting next to you says: “She is gorgeous, isn’t she?,” and now it’s official, you are no longer the only one who can see it, there are others too!
So, both of you keep staring at her in complete awe, while admiring her unbelievable perfection, and then, an obvious question pops inside your head almost right away: What is it about her that makes her so special?
The answer is simple: Personal Style.
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What is Personal Style?
We could define Personal Style as: The unique way in which an individual presents itself through its clothing, accessories, make up and overall appearance. It is something that goes beyond trends, and it involves a deep understanding of oneself and what makes a person feel comfortable in its own skin.
It is a unique representation of an individual’s gender, race, physique, personality, age, values, preferences, nationality, culture, influences, lifestyle, occupation, weather, and mood that evolves over time.
As a matter fact, some of the most iconic entrepreneurs, fashion designers, filmmakers, actors, musicians, and even politicians such as: Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg, Carl Lagerfeld, Robert Rodriguez, Slash, or even Barak Obama are known for their recognizable style!
The Importance of Personal Style
The importance someone places on defining its own Personal Style varies from person to person, but here are six benefits of doing so you definitely should know about!
1. It shows the world who you are
Identity is everything. As human beings, we want to be authentic, we want to be real, we want to belong to a society where we can be ourselves and show our true colors with pride and freedom. However, beyond the way we walk or the way we talk, there’s something that shows our identity more than anything else: Personal Style.
When you have a defined style, those qualities that are unique to your identity show themselves in an indirect, yet powerful way, something that helps you stand out from everyone else, making you look better, and therefore more attractive.
For example: some people show their crazy side through baggy clothes and bold colors, some people show their mysterious side through dark tones and sober designs, and some people show their edgy side through leather jackets and ripped jeans!
Having a visible identity can also help you connect with other people with similar views, needs and interests, which could create a strong bond, and a sense of belonging.
2. It tells others where you come from
Fashion is deeply rooted in culture. Every community has beliefs, every community has values, every community has traditions, and every community has a story that is told through our actions and of course…the way we dress.
For example: the intricate embroidery of Indian sarees, the bold patterns of African Ankara fabrics, and the elegance of Japanese kimonos, each hold cultural significance and artistic merit exclusive to the place they have been born in.
3. It represents your beliefs, values and ideals
As human beings, we all need something to stand for, something to believe in, it is just inherent to the human condition.
Some people believe in saving the planet, some people believe in human rights, and some people believe in gender equality. But whatever you believe in, you can use your Personal Style to make a statement!
For example, people who care deeply about the planet can express their commitment through sustainable fashion, people who want to lead a healthier lifestyle can express it through the use of activewear throughout the day, and people who love animals, can show their appreciation through “Animal Care” slogans on T-Shirts.
So, it doesn’t matter what causes you stand for, you can always find a way to express your commitment loud and clear through your Personal Style!
4. It raises your perceived value
We are all valuable beings with incredible qualities, talents and skills that could make the world a better place. But unfortunately, those qualities don’t necessarily get noticed when we interact with other human beings.
In our image driven world, people value others based on perception rather than reality. In other words, they measure a person’s worth based on looks rather than its actual capabilities. That is why people tend to be nicer to those who have better appearance in general, and disregard those who don’t look the part.
Yes, we are all supposed to own our style, but at the same time, everyone should present themselves in the best possible light regardless of personal preference, and that is something we can actively control through our choices.
The good news is, we can raise our perceived value through the way we dress and behave. Defining our Personal Style can give us the opportunity to polish every aspect of our appearance, so we can show the best in us to those we interact with.
5. It boosts your confidence
The way we dress can directly impact the way we feel about ourselves, and therefore, how confident we are when talking to others.
When we dress in a way that doesn’t fit our personality, we feel uncomfortable and out of place, almost like an alien in our own skin. It feels off, and there’s no flow.
On the other hand, when we feel comfortable with what we are wearing, it can make us feel powerful, invincible, and capable of achieving anything. Everything feels natural, everything flows, and that shows through the things we say and do!
6. It saves you time, energy and money
When you have a defined Personal Style, making choices about what to wear in a day-to-day basis is far simpler, because you already know what looks good on you, and what doesn’t, which lets you focus on a curated selection of garments and combinations that just work.
All of this translates in less time, money and energy spent on choosing, buying, wearing and maintaining the right clothes, while disregarding the wrong ones, and always looking put-together and up to the standards of the occasion.
Final Words
So there you go, these are some of the reasons why defining your Personal Style is a MUST, and why everyone should do it right away!
From showing your identity, background and ideals to the world, to raising your perceived value and boosting your confidence while saving valuable resources, defining your Personal Style is the single best thing you can do to present yourself in the best possible light!
I know, I know, at this point you must be thinking: “It all sounds great, but how am I supposed to find my own style?”
Well, don’t worry about it, because in our next post, we’ll describe a few simple steps to do just that, so you have the right tools to look your best!
Thank you for reading our post, I hope you had a great time as I did when writing it. See you soon, till next time!
John Lazer.